Defecation and Toilet Training Visitors to Summerhill must often get an odd impression about us, for sometimes we all talk about toilets. I think it is absolutely necessary to do so. I find that every child is interested in feces. So much has been written about a child's interest in his feces and urine that I expected to learn a lot by observing my infant daughter. However, she showed no interest at all nor any dis- gust. She had no desire to play with her body products. But when she was three, a friend of hers--a girl a year older who had been trained to be clean--introduced her to a hole-and-cor- ner excrement game marked by much whispering and shame and guilty giggling. It was a tiresome game and we could do nothing about it, knowing that to interfere would be to risk in- hibition. Luckily, Zoƫ soon tired of the other little girl's one- track activities, and the feces game came to a end. Adults seldom realize that there is nothing shocking to a child in feces and smells. It is the shocked attitude of the adult that makes the child conscience-stricken. I recall a girl of eleven who came to Summerhill. Her only interest in life was toilets. Her delight was to peep through the keyhole. I promptly changed her lessons from geography to toilets, making her very happy. After ten days, I made a remark about toilets. "Don't want to hear about them," she said wearily. "I'm fed up talking about toilets." Another pupil, a boy, could not take an interest in any lesson because he was so preoccupied with excrement and its like- nesses. I knew that only when he had exhausted this interest would he be able to go on to mathematics. And so it was. A teacher's work is simple: find out where a child's interest -172- |