Humor There is far too little humor in our schools and certainly in our educational journals. I know that humor can have its dangers; and that some men use humor to cover up more serious matters in life, for it is so easy to laugh something off instead of facing it. Children do not use humor for that purpose. To them humor and fun mean friendliness and comradeship. Stern teachers, re- alizing this, banish humor from their classrooms. The question arises, Can a stern teacher have a sense of humor at all? I doubt it. I find in my own daily work that I use humor all day long. I joke with each child, but they all know that I am deadly serious when the occasion presents itself. Whether you are a parent or a teacher, in order to successfully deal with children you must be able to understand their thoughts and feelings. And you must have a sense of humor-- childish humor. To be humorous with a child gives him the feeling that you love him. However, the humor must never be cutting or critical. It is delightful to watch how a child's sense of humor grows. Call it fun rather than humor, for a child has a sense of fun before humor develops. David Barton was practically born in Summerhill. When he was three, I would say to him, "I'm a visitor and I want to find Neill. Where is he?" David would look at me scornfully, "Silly ass, you're him." When David was seven, I stopped him in the garden one day. "Tell David Barton I want to see him," I said solemnly. "He's over at the cottage, I think." David grinned broadly. "Righto," he replied, and went over to the cottage. He came back in two minutes. -200- |