Swearing and Cursing One persistent criticism of Summerhill is that the children swear. It is true that they swear--if saying old English words is swearing. It is true that any new pupil will swear more than is necessary. At our General School Meeting, a girl of thirteen who came from a convent was always being brought up on charges for shouting out the phrase son of a bitch when she went sea bath- ing. It was impressed upon her that she only swore when bath- ing at a public beach, with strangers around, and that therefore she was showing off. As one boy put it to her, "You are just a silly little goose. You swear in order to show off in front of peo- ple, and you claim to take pride that Summerhill is a free school. But you do just the opposite--you make people look down on the school." I explained to her that she was really trying to do the school harm because she hated it. "But I don't hate Summerhill," she cried. "It's a terrific place." "Yes," I said, "it is, as you say, a terrific place, but you aren't in it. You are still living in your convent, and you have brought all your hate of the convent and your hate of the nuns with you. You still identify Summerhill with the hated convent. It isn't really Summerhill you are trying to damage--it's the convent." But she went on shouting out her special phrase until Summer- hill became a real place to her and not a symbol. After that, she stopped swearing. Swearing is of three kinds: sexual, religious, excremental. In Summerhill, the religious type of swearing is no problem be- cause the children are not taught religion. Now most children -259- |