hope in the course of a few months to have the pleasure of intro- ducing to you as your daughter-in-law, which is a matter of some in- terest to the poor girl, who has neither father nor mother in the world. " I have not ' played the fool and married an Ethiop for the jewel in her ear.' * I looked only for goodness of heart, an ingenuous and affectionate disposition, a good understanding, etc., and the character of my wife is too frank and single-hearted to suffer me to fear that I may be disappointed. I do myself wrong ; I did not look for these nor any other qualities, but they trapped me before I was aware, and now I am married in spite of myself. "Thus the current of destiny carries us all along. None but a madman would swim against the stream, and none but a fool would exert himself to swim with it. The best way is to float quietly with the tide. So much for philosophy—now to business.... " Your affectionate son, WILLIAM."
When this singular epistle, in which his pride seems to be awkwardly seeking excuses for a humiliating surrender, reached the good mother, she is said to have exclaimed : " He make a fool of himself ! He never has done so yet, and couldn't if he tried." A few months after his marriage, Mr. Bryant was surprised by a communication from the Secretary of the Phi Beta Kappa Society of Harvard College, Mr. W. J. Spooner, requesting him, " by a unanimous vote of the fraternity," to deliver the usual poetical address at the next Commencement. At first he shrank from the task, but at length consented to under- take it, although with many misgivings and doubts. In his answer to Mr. Spooner, April 26th, he said: " SIR : The honor thus conferred upon me is as unlooked for as it is flattering; I did not even know that I was a member of your soci- ety till I was informed of it by your letter. I have concluded to ac- cept the appointment, and discharge myself of it as well as I can. " I have never attended an anniversary of the Phi Beta Kappa So- ____________________ | * | An expression used in a previous letter of his sister. | -170- |