womanhood, with the added privileges, dignity,
and responsibility that it brings.

Intimate and long-sustained association, not
only with the individual, but with the entire
family, gives opportunities that would never
open up if the acquaintance were casual or the
settlement formally institutional. The incidents
that follow illustrate this, and I could add many
more.

Two girls classified as "near tough" seemed
beyond the control of their club leader, who
entreated help from the more experienced. On
a favorable occasion Bessie was invited to the
cozy intimacy of my sitting-room. That she
and Eveline, her chum, were conscious of their
exaggerated raiment was obvious, for she
hastened to say, "I guess it's on account of
my yellow waist. Eveline and me faded away
when we saw you at dancing class the other
night." It was easy to follow up her intro-
duction by pointing out that pronounced lack
of modesty in dress was one of several signs;
that their dancing, their talk, their freedom of
manner, all combined to render them conspicu-
ous and to cause their friends anxiety. Bessie
listened, observed that she "couldn't throw
the waist away, for it cost five dollars," but in-
sisted that she was "good on the inside." An
offer to buy the waist and burn it because her

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