CHAPTER III LOVE AND PERSONALITY FORMATION 1. HUMAN NEEDS, SATISFACTIONS, AND SUFFERING Culture Patterns are Dissimilar Means to the Attainment of Similar Ends. -- We return to the question propounded at the begin- ning of the preceding chapter. What causes the Trobrianders to have a family system so different from the Americans? We have now, it is hoped, dispelled from our minds the old idea that the difference is one of inborn or constitutional nature. Rather, the difference is cultural. It is the result of their differing histories, of their differing circumstances of invention, diffusion, and migration. But another side of the picture must not be overlooked. First, both peoples, and indeed all peoples, have some family system. Second, all family systems, however different, satisfy certain basic and uni- versal human nees: the care and feeding of the young child, sex desire, continuity of affection, intimate co-dwelling companionship. In other words, there are certain subeultural, universal behavior patterns, interaction patterns, and values, beneath the variety of culture patterns. We may picture the several cultures of the world's peoples as houses built upon similar foundations but with greatly varying superstructures. Culture the Servant of Biology, yet Varies Independently of Biology. -- Does the above picture mean that man satisfies his basic needs in the cellar of his culture-house, so to speak, and that the upper stories of the house are unessential to his life? Are the vari- ations in the superstructure the plaything of imitation and chance innovation, without relation to basic human needs? No, the varied cultural patterns, as well as the more uniform sub- cultural patterns of human activity, satisfy human wishes. They may vary widely, but human needs fix limits to their variation. Culture does not exist independently in its own right; it is the servant of individual human beings. Its function, in other words, is biological. How is it possible to reconcile this statement with the idea given in the last two chapters that culture is external to man and varies from -54- |