3 The Benefit of Second Opinions When confronted with the possible existence of some condition affecting our child's health or ability to learn, our first concern is the extent to which this condition will inhibit or delay the child's long-term growth and development. We question whether an accurate diagnosis has been made. We may feel uncomfortable with the results of the testing and decide to have a more comprehensive assessment. When to call upon others to confirm a medical or educational problem or diagnosis depends on various factors. In fact, you may proceed with the process described herein more than once during your child's schooling. You may wait until your child has been in a school program for a period of time before calling upon others for diagnostic assistance, or you may seek a second opinion immediately, as soon as a problem appears. REASONS WHY PARENTS CONFIRM A DIAGNOSIS Your first priority should be to identify your child's specific educa- tional needs. To do this you will assess his strengths and weaknesses. In essence, you will be looking for specific strategies to help your child succeed in school and in the community, seeking guidance and direction from experts in the field. However, it is important to remember that you do not have to accept the recommendations and conclusions made by the first professional that you consult, and certainly not just because he or she is well known. It is important that you feel comfortable commu- nicating with the specialist, and that you and your child look forward to visiting with this person. You also seek this person out to give you helpful advice and support. Finding appropriate support for your child and the entire family is an important goal. -33- |