Chapter I Beyond Binary Thinking The Two, Three, or Ten Loves She is all there. She was melted carefully down for you and cast up from your childhood, cast up from your one hundred favorite aggies. . . . She is so naked and singular. She is the sum of yourself and your dream. Climb her like a monument, step after step. She is solid. As for me, I am a watercolor. I wash off. Anne Sexton, "For My Lover, Returning to His Wife" As the antients agree, brother Toby, said my father, that there are two different and distinct kinds of love, according to the different parts which are affected by it--the Brain or Liver--I think when a man is in love, it behoves him a little to consider which of the two he is fallen into.
Laurence Sterne, Tristram Shandy Because Venus and Cupid so often change form and role in the Middle Ages, they challenge literary critics trying to decipher the nuances and im- plications of any particular representation. In response to this challenge, readings of Venus and Cupid have for the most part settled into two schools: the deities have for decades been almost universally explicated as symbols of "courtly love" or of "two loves" ("good" and "evil," either one of which may also be "courtly"). There are other valuable interpre- -9- |