Magazine article Success

Seizing the Moment: A Story of Enemies Turned Friends, from the Pages of Success for Teens

Magazine article Success

Seizing the Moment: A Story of Enemies Turned Friends, from the Pages of Success for Teens

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The windows of opportunity are sometimes open only briefly. Identifying them can be hard, but seizing the moment is even more difficult. We'd like to believe these opportunities will serve themselves up to us. Often, though, we must be creative.

This is a lesson adapted from SUCCESS for Teens: Real Teens Talk about Using the Slight Edge, the cornerstone material of SUCCESS for Teens, a personal-development curriculum by the SUCCESS Foundation. (SUCCESSFoundation.org offers free downloads of the e-book, facilitator's guide and audio to qualifying public schools, churches and nonprofit youth-development programs.)

One teen wrote in her journal about seizing the moment with a former rival to forever change their relationship for the better.

Kim and I had different styles, but we were also a lot alike, and we found each other threatening because of that. Our freshman year, we got into a fight. She started it, over some "he-said, she-said." I won and gained my peers' respect.

After that, I had to live up to my reputation. So when I walked past her, I had nothing to say. If we saw each other in the mall, we would roll our eyes at each other. If we saw each other at a party, we made it our business to walk past each other with disgust.

But when I came back to school from summer vacation senior year, I saw my archenemy, and she was no longer the same. Kim didn't do her hair or dress nicely anymore. She didn't even hang out with her group of friends. I began to see people picking on her for no reason, calling her names, throwing things at her and starting fights. …

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