Newspaper article Sunshine Coast Daily (Maroochydore, Australia)

Bonding Key to Effective Loving

Newspaper article Sunshine Coast Daily (Maroochydore, Australia)

Bonding Key to Effective Loving

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LOVE DOCTOR

Gabrielle Morrissey

Q I have been seeing a guy for a few months and we're sexually active. It's still quite new and exciting. I am much less sexually experienced compared with him, which is somewhat intimidating. He is concerned that he can't make me orgasm.

I have only ever slept with three guys and have never had an orgasm with any of them.

I have tried to reassure him that it will happen and not to get upset over it. However, I'm beginning to wonder why it hasn't happened yet. Is this common, and if so, is there any way I can fix it?

A The inability to reach orgasm is quite common for women, especially when with a partner.

One thing truly important at the start of a sexual or romantic relationship is not to fake your arousal or climax.

This only starts a vicious cycle of lack of pleasure for you, and even less chance of attaining orgasms, because by faking you are sending the message to your partner that what they are doing (which isn't working for you) is what they need to do to give you climactic pleasure. …

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