lawyer does not want to work one hundred hours a week. Maybe that is not success; maybe success is an integration of meaningful work and connections. The choices we make at work are similar to other decisions. Preferences depend on who we are, what we need and want, and where we are in our lives. These directions are not right or wrong, but they are acutely personal.
Quote in chapter title is from Pat Schroeder, when asked how she could be both a member of Congress and a mother, as quoted in L. Clark (Ed.), ( 1977), Women women women: Quips, quotes and commentary ( New York: Drake), p. 53.