First, I want to thank Ian, Colette, Georgia and Harry for allowing and encouraging me to have this story published. They have each made a huge contribution to the initial keeping of the records and to the discussion and analysis of the data. Secondly, I want to give a very special thanks to Eloise for patiently reading and re-reading the text and for giving me her honest critical feedback. I want to thank Paul and Terry for our many discussions about Harry and for being supportive in many different ways when I needed to immerse myself in writing. Lastly, I want to acknowledge the support of my colleagues at Pen Green Centre, particularly Margy Whalley, who continue to encourage me in new ventures.