Perceived Parental Actions and Evaluations of the Family and Its Members
Parish, Thomas S., Adolescence
Interpersonal familial problems (e.g., negative attitudes toward family members) have often been associated with traumatic events, such as parental divorce or death of a parent (Ambert & Saucier, 1983; Parish & Dostal, 1980; Parish & Kappes, 1980). However, it might be that how parents generally interact with one another is the key factor in understanding youth and the social-emotional problems they manifest. This is supported by the research of Parish (1988a), in which young adults' self-concepts were significantly correlated with how their fathers were perceived to act toward their mothers (r = .61) and how their mothers were perceived to act toward their fathers (r = .58). To take this one step further, the present study sought to determine the relationships between perceptions of parents' actions toward one another and young adults' evaluations of their mothers, fathers, stepparents (if any), and families.
A total of 64 college students who were enrolled in a human development class at a large midwestern university voluntarily participated in the present study. They completed two forms of the Love/Hate Checklist (Parish, 1988a, 1988b) in order to describe how their fathers acted toward their mothers and how their mothers acted toward their fathers. These checklists consist of 45 "loving" and 45 "hateful" alphabetically arranged adverbs from which respondents choose 25 that best describe how their parents acted toward one another. The score in each instance is the number of hateful adverbs checked regarding each parent's actions.
The Personal Attribute Inventory (Parish, Bryant, & Shirazi, 1976) was administered to obtain evaluations of mothers, fathers, stepparents, and families. This inventory is composed of 50 "positive" and 50 "negative" alphabetically arranged adjectives from which 30 are chosen that best describe the target person in question. The score is the number of negative adjectives checked.
The measures were administered in a counterbalanced fashion. Respondents also were asked to indicate their gender.
RESULTS AND DISCUSSION
As shown in Table 1, the perceived actions of mothers toward fathers and fathers toward mothers were significantly related to each other and to evaluations of the family and its members. Notably, these findings varied as a function of the gender of the respondent.
Evaluations of fathers, for example, were found to be more positive for both male and female respondents if their fathers were perceived to act lovingly toward their mothers. …