Women Need to Change the Way They Talk about Bodies; Sarah Riley Is a Senior Lecturer in the Psychology Department at Aberystwyth University, Where She Teaches Qualitative Methods and Is Part of the Team Designing Its New MSc in Health Psychology
RESEARCH suggests that most women talk negatively about the size and shape of their bodies.
This kind of talk has been given the name "fat talk".
One of the interesting things about fat talk is that fat people generally don't do it - slim people do.
So how have we ended up in a place where slim people complain about being fat? As a critical psychologist interested in health and social issues, I answer this question by thinking about people's talk as a social process that has psychological and social consequences, rather than a simple description of how people think or feel.
In relation to fat talk I'm therefore less interested in if a speaker really thought they were fat and more interested in the psychological and social functions of this talk.
In relation to fat talk there seems to be several functions - because it's something that women do, doing it can make you feel like a woman.
And, since women often have back and forth conversations saying how fat they are, but how their friend isn't, fat talk is a vehicle for female bonding.
Fat talk also allows women to draw attention to their bodies, inviting others to look at them, but because they are doing it in a critical way, this invitation to look, and perhaps admire them, can be done without them being accused of showing off. …