WHEN SHE was young, just 2 years old and barely able to walk, Joy Ngozi Ezeilo was on the run. In 1968 a civil war had plunged Nigeria into chaos. She has no memory now of those days, but her parents told her that she knew the sounds of incoming shells and bombs and would scream as soon as she heard them.
Today Ezeilo is one of her country's most forceful advocates for the rights of women. At 47, she's the mother of three children herself, a woman with a big, contagious laugh, but no time for nonsense: she looks at problems--and the people who create them--straight on. As the United Nations special rapporteur on trafficking in persons, with a special focus on women and children, she has global reach in the fight against modern-day slavery. She's also a distinguished academic. But her firsthand experiences with suffering are what give her such striking passion.
The turning point, she says, came when she was just 15 and a precocious student in secondary school. She'd never thought much about her gender. Then her father, a civil servant, died suddenly. When the family went to their ancestral village for the burial, Ezeilo felt her life turn upside down. "That was where I learned what women had to go through as women," she says. "That was my first recognition that, well, you are different."
In eastern Nigeria, the ritual mourning imposed on widows is brutal. The wife is presumed in some way guilty of her husband's death. Many are forced to drink the water used to bathe the corpse. The husband's relatives judge their cries of grief, finding fault. The humiliations are many, petty, and painful, and very often the inheritance that ought to be a widow's right is taken from her.
"I was watching my mom being forced to cry," Ezeilo remembers. "They say, 'OK, you want to cry like this to show really that you are mourning, and you sit down here; you cannot take any food; you cannot shower; your hair has to be shaved.'" Ezeilo, the oldest of six children, was carrying her infant baby brother in her arms and looking on, appalled at all that was done to her mother: "I was, like, why would she do this? And so, from there and then I told my mom, I am going to be a lawyer, because I want to advocate the rights of women ... And I became one."
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