Of all the odd creatures in the astronomical zoo, the "black hole" is the oddest.To understand it, concentrate on gravity.
Every piece of matter produces a gravitational field. The larger the piece, the larger the field. What's more, the field grows more intense the closer you move to its center. If a large object is squeezed into a smaller volume, its surface is nearer its center and the gravitational pull on that surface is stronger.
Anything on the surface of a large body is in the grip of its gravity, and in order to escape it must move rapidly. If it moves rapidly enough, then even though gravitational pull slows it down continually it can move sufficiently far away from the body so that the gravitational pull, weakened by distance, can never quite slow its motion to zero.
The minimum speed required for this is the "escape velocity." From the surface of the earth, the escape velocity is 7.0 miles per second.From Jupiter, which is larger, the escape velocity is 37.6 miles per second.From the sun, which is still larger, the escape velocity is 383.4 miles per second.
Imagine all the matter of the sun (which is a ball of hot gas 864,000 miles across) compressed tightly together. Imagine it compressed so tightly that its atoms smash and it becomes a ball of atomic nuclei and loose electrons, 30,000 miles across.The sun would then be a "white dwarf." Its surface would be nearer its center, the gravitational pull on that surface would be stronger, and escape velocity would now be 2,100 miles per second.
Compress the sun still more to the point where the electrons melt into the nuclei.There would then be nothing left but tiny neutrons, and they will move together till they touch. The sun would then be only 9 miles across,